I'm so upset. My current boyfriend is absolutely wonderful. he's kind, he's SO funny, he and I have the same musical interests, it's all great… when he's not doing drugs. He's currently 16 and told me he used to do it all the time about 2 years ago and that he really regrets doing it back then. I was really upset when I found out. He knows that I don't like him doing it, and he know that I was upset when I found out the truth. Today I was casually on the phone with him talking about today. He mentioned something that he did today that he wasn't expecting to happen. A guy he usually doesn't talk to asked him to lunch today as buddies. It turns out that, rather than going to McDonald's, they did weed. He was laughing when he told me this like it was funny. I casually laughed along too because I didn't want to be a killjoy. But what makes me upset is that HE KNOWS that I don't like him doing drugs and that the topic of drugs is a sensitive topic for me. I feel like he doesn't actually care about me. I'm so concerned for him because it's so hard for me to imagine him sitting there, with a joint in his hand, having fun and laughing. And then he told me that what he experienced was not something that he wants me to experience. Here I am, never having even touched weed before, dating someone who's done it multiple times. I really care about him, and I don't want him doing this anymore. I really want him to stop. But I feel that, no matter how many times I ask him, he's not going to think about the consequences of his actions and he won't stop.