• mooseflame

    Your husband has an attitude problem. Unfortunately, the only person who permanently change his way of thinking…is him. A reality based slap in the face would probably do some good, even if it is seems drastic. I’m actually going through a similar time myself at the moment, “can’t be bothered to do this now so I’ll leave it for the night before”/”why make that appointment today when I could tomorrow?” type mindset….it’s weak, but then i’m lazy, not very self disciplined and easily freaked out by things. These in conjunction lead me to avoiding challenging or stressful situations; not dissimilar to the actions of your husband by the sounds of it. I hope you manage to find a way of supporting him through this time where he is his own greatest enemy, but stay happy and looking after yourself.