• mooseflame

    It’s never, ever, EVER too late to question or ‘decide’ your sexuality/gender. Accept that you aren’t sure where you fall on the scale (because, yes: it is a scale) and equally aren’t sure who you are. That’s ok. You don’t need to know: stop pressuring yourself. I’m only a little older than you, but jesus if you WERE settled with yourself at 16? You’re doing better than me! Although this is easier said than done (believe me I know), I also suspect you’ll find happiness and peace with yourself if you feel more in control of your academics. Or at least develop the self discipline to keep on top of work better. I suspect you’d feel less shitty and disappointed in yourself, and establishing control over something that you can, will allow you to accept a lack of control in an area you can’t. If that doesn’t sound too convoluted….

    • anon

      you are a saint. thank you so much, this is the advice i needed 3 months ago. i think this coming school year will be a nice, fresh start for me.

      • mooseflame

        Absolutely no problem- good luck for this coming year!