if i could just have one person to vent my frustrations to whenever i need to and not be terrified of backlash that would be great
i thought i had that in my friend but considering that i've noticed he has started to use my vents against me like my abusive mother does is just fucking dandy and i have lost so much trust in him it ain't even funny
if you take someone's problems that they have confided in you and use them against the person you are a fucking vile creature that needs to crawl into a hole and whither away
doing that is the most wretched thing you can do to a person.
they are a person not a punching bag