I currently have a boyfriend. We didn't actually start dating until a year ago. However we came really close about 5 years ago. That is where the story starts. We became fast friends, and one time after hanging out we ended up kissing. It was nice. I went back to school, and while we were talking he asked me on a date. He didn't mince words, it was a date. I agreed. A few months of talking later, and it was winter break. We planned a party for our friends, and during the party he announced that he was dating a girl he brought along. I was upset, but I got over it. We remained close friends, but we weren't the best friends that we were. He dated her for a few years before it was over. I dated other people too. About a year an a half ago we got close again, and he asked me out. Eventually I agreed to give him another chance, and we've been dating ever since. I still haven't told him that what he did really hurt me. He doesn't realize it. I wanted to broach the subject with him, because he asked me about it a few weeks ago– unfortunately I was completely drunk and gave him a half-assed answer that didn't fully explain everything. I'm not sure how to go about it without putting him on the defensive, or hurting him by bringing up old wounds.