All my life I've never really had a birthday party with just me and my friends, its always invite all these cousins and then, oh wait, sorry sweetie, you can't invite your friends because we filled up on cousins, or your cousin will see the pictures on facebook and we have to invite them and let them stay the night. No. For once I want a birthday party that is all my own, when I ask for that they try to make it sound like I am the bad guy for wanting a party on my own. I don't want my overweight, eight year old, weeb of a cousin jumping my friends and yelling all the time, my friends don't like being touched too much or yelled at, I don't want my brother jumping on them and talking about undertale when he hasn't even played it. So far I don't want my sweet 16 to be that kind of party. Isn't a sweet 16 supposed to be special and memorable, not another blurred awful party with a eight year old grabbing and yelling and talking about five nights at freddy's or Homestuck, or my brother going on about a game he's never played. All I wanted was to go to a paint "bar" (not a real bar) with my friends and hang out. How awful is that? It is so selfish to want a party all on my own and with just my friends? I said I wanted a seperate party for my family and then the ones with my friends.